Banner photo of Larry Eugene Meredith, Ronald Tipton and Patrick Flynn, 2017.

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-- Larry E.
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Showing posts with label Lost Innocence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Lost Innocence. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 9, 2016

Summertime, the Fading Sunshine of Innocence



Summertime and I was free from school. I could avoid much of the teasing or rejection surrounding me on the school ground. I spent a lot of time playing with Michael Myers at my home. I still played regularly with Iva , who lived directly across the street from 417.
The photo of me holding Peppy was taken in my grandparents’ backyard, but the fence and garden you see behind me wasn’t theirs for the vacant lot between them and the Darlington’s had been invaded.
A man bought the empty lot between 424 and 418 Washington Avenue. He built a large double house on the plot and he lived on one side and his daughter and son-in-law occupied the other.(pictured right).
The house was pink.
I remember people clucking tongues over that and the angrily whispered conversations. “Just what you’d expect they’d do!”
The “they”, who bought the lot and built the house were Italian. There was a lot of prejudice against Italians at the time. They were a little too dark, a little too foreign and the boot of Italy dipped too close to Africa (yes, their were some who viewed this negatively). Italy had fought on the side of the Axis and perhaps worse of all, Italians tended to be Papist, that is, Roman Catholics. At the time many Italian families lived in their own section of the borough called Johnsontown.
Johnsontown doesn’t sound particulary Italian and originally it wasn’t. John R. Johnson egotistically gave the place its name. He purchased the tract in 1871 and built 108 buildings. The first residents consisted of Civil War Vets and Irish. There was a great wave of Irish immigration to the States between 1860 and 1900 and most of these settled in the mill towns where there were opportunities for unskilled laborers.
In 1919 Local Italians formed the Fraternal Order of St. Anthony’s. Ten years later they build a permanent St. Anthony’s Lodge in Johnsontown and Italians started to move there and that area became their focal point.
I don’t think I ever traveled through the Johnsontown section. As a child people warned me that Johnsontown was forbidden territory; stay away.  I didn’t even think Johnsontown was part of Downingtown. It was beyond the railroad tracks on the West side, literally on the wrong side of the tracks. It may as well have been in another country as far as I knew. This would have been too far for me to go yet for I never ventured over to the West Side, besides which to get into Johnsontown would require walking through a spooky tunnel beneath the railroad. No way I would have gone into that tunnel.

Now here was a family, two families actually, living on our block and their surnames ended in vowels. This was a jarring note to the Browns, Merediths, Darlingtons, Ingrams, Zittles, Fredericks, Shirks, Fahays, Amways, Robinsons and Buckleys who occupied the street. There were the LaFevres, but wasn’t that French?
Those days seem so distant, a galaxy far, far away. Not just the prejudices, but also the whole way of life. I mentioned in a previous chapter that the farm equipment dealer next door closed on Sundays. He had no choice. Pennsylvania Blue Laws forbade businesses opening on Sunday. You couldn’t play certain sports on Sundays. Those you could were restricted to certainhours of the day. When the Philadelphia baseball teams (Phillies and Athletics) had a Sunday afternoon double header and a game wasn’t ended by 7:00 PM, they had to postpone the remaining innings until another day.

Several different services came around during the week to meet the consumptive needs of daily life. Coal heated many of the homes on our street. The Coalman, probably W. P. Canby and Son, came when called to dump a new load of black coal down a chute into a basement storage bin. The icehouse (Atlantic Ice Manufacturing Company) was located at the coal dealer’s lot as well and we still had an old icebox operating at 424 early in my residency. The iceman cometh with great tongs holding a block of ice that kept this box cold. The Maxwell-Canby Heating Oil Company occupies that spot today.

Burning coal produced ash. Just like our modern garbage collectors there were ash men who came once a week collecting ash from buckets set by the curb. Speaking of garbage, we had a collector for that as well. You smelt him coming a couple blocks away. He had an open binned vehicle and just dumped your garbage pail in with all the rest. This was food scrap only. It was pig slop for the farm. How’s that for recycling?
The stench from the paper mills pulp pits masked the garbage odor in the high humid heat of July and August. If you lived in Downingtown in the heyday of its paper industry you would never forget the smell of those summer days and nights.
Newspapers were bundled for curb pick up or Boy Scout paper drives. Very little went to waste. You know the old saying, “One man’s trash is another man’s treasure”. It seemed anything we had no use for could be raw material for someone else. When our clothes wore out, my grandmother used them in her cleaning and when they were beyond that use the Ragman took them. These Rag Pickers came around to our backdoor every few weeks calling out, “Old rags? Any old rags?”
Paper trash, which was less frequent then because much of what you bought, especially groceries, didn’t come wrapped in shrink-wrap and packaging. This refuge was burned. We had old 55-gallon drums to the rear of the yard and there we burned any combustible. That became one of my chores, one I enjoyed. I liked setting the fire and I would drop some of the trash in by hand, pretending it were people falling into the flames.

It was the same with leaves in the fall. You racked them into a large pile and burnt them. Some fall evenings were hazy with smoke and the air stung your nose with the pungent aroma.
The postman came twice a day. Doctors made house calls. Milkmen came early in the morning to pick up empty bottles and leave filled one, along with cream and a few other dairy products. My grandmother would tuck a rolled note into the neck of an empty bottle giving her order for the day.
We kids gathered the other empty beverage bottles like soda to cash at the grocery. There was a deposit on most such things and we kids could make a good living scavenging for discarded containers. This tended to be slim pickings. Most people went after the deposit themselves.
Bread trucks also delivered daily, leaving bake goods on order.
The insurance agent came to the house monthly to collect. Ours was a chubby woman who had an odd smell to her. It wasn’t a bad odor like B.O., but a strangely strong one. It was half metallic and half leather, as if a human recliner had walked into the living room of its own power.
Pet owners simply let the dog out the door when nature called and then they buried the pets in the backyard when they died.
There were many odd people who came around.
Some of these people were entertaining, doing what they did either for tips or to promote some product. A sample of this was the photographer who traveled about with a pony and cowboy outfit offering to snap a portrait of children perched upon the steed. I mentioned this itinerant hustle earlier. It seemed everyone of my generation had their portrait taken by the guy.

Another gentlemen who popped up occasionally in town during my earliest years were the Organ Grinders. I don’t know much about the guy, and I am assuming it was the same man who came back every year when I was very young, but old enough to go listen to him. He had a box like thing and it had one leg on the bottom at the middle. He rested it on this leg as he turned a crank and music came out. He also had a little monkey that wore a fez or perhaps a bellboy cap. The monkey was on a leash attached to either the man or his box and it danced about before anyone who came outside when the music started. The monkey held out a tin cup for people to drop coins into.

This was another case where my mother instilled fear into me. She would pull me back, admonishing me not to get too close to the beast for it might bite me. My grandmother didn’t say much about the monkey, but she didn’t trust the man. She glared at him with distrust.
Another source of yearly entertainment, at least for we kids, when I was a bit older, were the Duncan Yoyo Men. I say men because I don’t think the same demostrator came each year, but I could be wrong. He came to different sites. Sometime to one of the stores that was selling Yoyos and even once to the playground behind East Ward. There was a program the township ran a couple years during the summer vacation. It was supposed to keep we children occupied so we wouldn’t get into mischief. They had contests and craft tables outside for us to engage in varied activities. One summer the Duncan Yoyo Man came to and did his Yoyo tricks for us. The object was to sell the toy, of course. Yoyo-ing was quite the fad for a couple years. They had Yoyos that whistled, ones that glowed in the dark, ones that shot out sparks. I actually became quite good at doing tricks with the thing.

Not everybody who wandered through our part of town was selling something.
Hobos stopped at the back door offering to work for food.
There were Gypsies who came to the door at times, offering to tell fortunes or maybe give curses. My grandmother would give the Hobos some food and not ask them to do any work. The Gypsies she would shoo away. She didn’t fear any evil eyes.
There were witches in the hills. A witch lived in a little cabin up in the woods off of 322 just outside of town pass the high school. My grandfather pointed her place out to me every time we drove pass. She had a little shack up there in the trees.
Rumor had it there was a witch living by the waterworks.
I had my own run in with a witch as a boy.
I had warts on the thumb of my right hand, three of them in a row. I never thought too much about them, they were just there. No doctor ever offered to remove them. I was playing outside, me and a girl,  and we sat down on her front steps around the start of evening twilight. This heavyset woman came up to us. She was overdressed in a flouncy blouse and long flowing skirt with a trimmed hem. She looked down at me.
“Would you like me to take away your warts,” she asked.
It was a little scary, this strange woman with a slight accent asking such a thing. Maybe she would whip out a knife and cut off my thumb.
“I guess, so” I think I mumbled, while at the same time I was remembering something about Tom Sawyer and Huckleberry Finn carrying a dead cat to a graveyard at midnight to cure warts.

“I will take your warts away,” she said.
Where would I get a dead cat, I wondered. I think by this time my girl friend was edging closer to her front door.
The woman took hold of my hand and she passed the palm of her other hand over my thumb. She stroked my thumb a few times and then let go.
“I take your warts now,” she said.
I looked at my thumb and they were still there.
“You see,” she said and left. She didn’t ask us for money or anything, she just went away and I never saw her again.
Of course my warts were still sticking out on my thumb when I went home that night.
When I woke up the next morning my warts were gone.
I don’t explain them, I just tell my experiences.
There were sad cases, too. My Grandmother called them “unfortunates”. We were to shun them. There was a boy downtown that had either ringworm or lice. There was another boy we were to stay away from because “he took fits”; he had epilepsy.
Sometimes this small black man on an oversized bike, its huge basket full of old papers. The bike was festooned with lights and horns. He was a fixture around Exton for decades and had some connection to the Guernsey Cow Dairy Bar. He must have been in his early thirties on the few times I noticed him. He died around 2009 at the age of 89.

There was also Henry who I was afraid of.
Henry was quite harmless, I suppose. People said, “He isn’t all there.” I really didn’t know what that meant, but I knew he was different than anyone else I encountered on the street. I would see him quite often in the summer walking around downtown. I saw him at the annual fair sometimes. He was very strange to see.
He wasn’t very big, neither in height or girth. He was gangly and when he walked he constantly turned his head back and forth. When he looked at something, or somebody, he would stand close and bend forward and move his head back and forth instead of just his eyes. His eyes sort of bugged out and he was slightly bucktoothed. He looked like a giant Preying Mantis. I don’t remember if I ever heard him say anything.
He was always dressed the same in heavy winter clothes too large for his frame. It didn’t matter if it was ninety degrees out; he had on a coat and one of those hats with the earflaps. Whenever I saw him coming I would duck behind my grandfather.
“He won’t harm you,” Pap-Pap would say.

“You leave that man alone,” my grandmother would warn, as if I would ever go near the guy.
I wonder what ever happened to him? I assume he is dead by now. That was sixty years ago.
Maybe people considered me one of the odd people about town by the time I left as a teenager. 

Tuesday, March 8, 2016

Comic Books, Baseball Cards and Other Tools of War

I am not sure how far my new friendships had developed by the end of Fourth Grade. It is difficult to pinpoint many of the experiences I remember from my youth as to the exact period they occurred.
It may be that my friendship with Stuart Meisel developed from those puppet shows. It may have been that commonality which drew us to each other.
The earliest photographs I have of Stuart and me together (on right) were in 1952-53, but these were taken of an event at East Ward School. The earliest picture I have of me at Stuart’s home was taken in 1954 (left, in the Red Room). But that would have been during our junior high years and we would have been 12 or 13 years old depending if the photo was before or after the last week of June. I was born on the 27th and he on the 30th of that month.
I can’t trust photographs to pinpoint such things as exact dates. I was interested in photography as a child. I had a Kodak Brownie camera and took a lot of pictures. Unfortunately, I can’t remember what year I got that camera and the photos I took as a child have disappeared. The first photograph I have of Ronald and I together is the same 1953 event where Stuart appears. (Ronald is on the far left of the top row and I am on the far right. Stuart is kneeling directly in front of me.) The first picture I have of Ronald taken by me is 1956. I do know when and how Ron and I met and that was 1950.


I am certain Stuart and I as friends go back to 1950 or ’51, but remembering my being together with my childhood friends is like seeing a large and glorious garden. I can see the individual beds of flowers, but I can’t distinguish just where the garden path begins. However, in the case of Ronald, I know the blooms of friendship blossomed over those Third-Fourth Grade years.
Ronald Tipton and I were trading comic books.

I don’t have a photograph, but I have a picture in my head of us sitting on the sun porch at 417 Washington Avenue bargaining over those books. I carried a large cardboard box, one of those they had packed groceries in at the market, out to the porch. He would be waiting with whatever he could carry in his arms or brought in a shopping bag.
Ronald says I was tough. I was a natural born hoarder. It was difficult for me to give up certain things. I wanted to get the comics he had that I liked best, but not lose too many favorites of my own in the deal. Scrooge McDuck and Marge’s Little Lulu were probably the most difficult to yank from my hands. Or maybe they all were. I am sure I grumbled over giving up a Plastic Man or Green Lantern or Captain Marvel. I probably offered up things like Submariner or Captain America. I was never very fond of those.

I though Submariner was a little fishy (yes, pun intended) with his strange pointed ears on his pointed face. Namor the numbskull!
I much preferred DC’s Aquaman. I still might have been willing to part with some Aquamans; although, I not certain he had his own comic book that early. He was still appearing in "Adventure Comics", as was The Green Arrow at the time. He didn't get his own publication until much later. 

 I imagine I was also freer with Bugs Bunny, Porky Pig, Oswald Rabbit and Andy Panda comics; probably most of the Looney Tunes/Merry Melodies line and Mickey Mouse was never a big favorite, though I bought every new issue that appeared when I could afford to.
I am not certain what happened to that big stack of comic books in the storage room at the Swamp House. I obviously brought back a carton full pruned from that collection, but many of them simply disappeared, especially some of the older ones like Famous Funnies or Funnys on Parade My folks probably felt there wasn’t enough room for them all at my Grandparent’s and told me to pick out those I really wanted. Maybe those comics really had been in that house when we got there and so they just left them.
Ronald would have some comics in his offerings I had no interest in whatsoever. They had
words like “Love” or “Romance” in the titles. Who wanted those things? I didn’t know why he wanted to read that stuff. He did
have some of the EC titles, such as The Vault of Horror and a number of Archie Comics.
I was a big fan of Archie and collected most of the spinoffs as well, such as Jughead, Pep and Laugh Comics. Laugh was kind of a
seasonal collection in the Archie series and an anthology that featured stories centered around different characters in the Archie Family, such as Katy Keene. Pep also featured characters other than just Archie and his gang, such as Li’l Jinx and The Shield, a superhero.
Speaking of Archie spinoffs, Ronald had Katy Keene comics. I read her in Laugh, but seldom would buy her own comic. Katy Keene had a fashion element to her stories. There was a page of cutout paper dolls included in each issue. I had clipped pictures from magazines to play grocery store once upon a time, but I never had much interest in paper dolls.
Now looking at Katy in her underwear, I may have taken an interest in her comics a few years down the road. There would come a period when I traced over drawings of Betty and Veronica and left off their clothing. We’ll talk more about that chapter of my youth in the section of this book when I reach Junior High. At this stage of life, I had no interest in Katy Keene.

Ronald use to submit dress designs to the Katy Keene Fashions. It was a regular feature and contest. You too could create a gown for Katy’s semi-nude paper doll body to sport. Ronald was a good artist. He told me at one time in our childhood he wanted to be a designer when he grew up, not of women’s fashion so much, but of rooms. He could draw rooms well also. He talked of being an interior
designer. I don’t know if he still remembers that desire or what happened that he never pursued it. I thought he was quite good. In more recent times he has confessed to me he really wanted to be a fashion designer, but in our youth boys didn’t speak about such things publicly.
I was interested in art myself, but not in being a designer. (Painting left: “Night Flowers”, age 7.) I just liked to draw and sketch, especially trees. (Right, one of my bare trees in “Awakenings, done in colored charcoal.) In Fourth and Fifth grade some of my drawings were going up on the boards and displayed for any open house affairs at the school. My art was one of my few saving graces in Junior High, too. It was one of the few things anyone praised me for. I had developed my own ambitions in the field by then, but it wasn’t to be a portrait painter or a designer of any stripe. I wanted to be a cartoonist.

There was another trading activity I got into by Fourth Grade, but I don’t think Ronald was as much into Baseball Bubblegum Cards as I was. I could be wrong and maybe we did trade players or gamble for them.
Stuart may have been more involved in this activity and Michael Myers and some of the other boys on the street. I had bought (well, my mother bought for me after some wheedling and whining) my first few cards in 1948. I believe the modern cards only appeared on the market in 1947. I got a few more in 1949 and after that the floodgates opened. I was on my way to filling a couple of shoeboxes with cards.
It was a great deal. You got a large square of bubblegum and a card for one cent, and I even
liked the gum. There were nickel packs where you got a stick of gum and six players’ cards, even more cards during a time Topps and Bowman’s got competitive. Bowman’s was the leader in producing bubblegum baseball cards during the early ‘fifties, but was eventually surpassed by Topps.
Ironically, in 1947 when I had first began to buy Bowman bubblegum, one of their vice-presidents, Edward P. Fenimore, founded his own company in Havertown, Pennsylvania called the Philadelphia Gum Company. Twenty-two years after I purchased my first Bowman card I would go to work at the Philadelphia Gum Compay, but more about that will come much later in my tale.
There were certain players every boy wanted to get in his collection. I wanted Richie Ashburn and Stan Musial.
Ashburn was center fielder for the Phillies and I pictured myself as him. I had been a fan of
Stan Musial ever since my grandfather gave me his large bat in kindergarten. (The photo of Richie Ashburn on the left is not a baseball card, but a photograph taken inside the Phillies locker room by Mary Lou Marple. The year was 1958. Mary Lou was one of my wife-to-be’s best friends. The picture on the right is of my future wife and her friends looking over the program from the game the night they took the photos of the players. That is my wife-to-be, Lois, seated left, then Mary Lou Marple and Lynn Martin They were all attending Upper Darby High School together.)

 A lot of the kids wanted Mickey Mantle. Mantle was very difficult to get. I really think the gum companies only put out a limited number of the top name players to keep you buying all summer. You would get a lot more of Ted Kazanski (don’t confuse him with the Unabomber Ted Kaczynski) than of Ted Kluwzewski.
Mickey Mantle and Stan Musial seemed impossible to get. It took me years to get one card of Musial. We would trade all those “doubles” of Kazanskis in the bubblegum world to get somebody we were missing. It was the Kazanskis we most often gambled with as well.

 (Photo on right is Mickey Mantle, 1951. Not impossible, but then that is a Bowman Card. Topps was more difficult.)
How did we gamble baseball cards? The way we did it where I was involved was simple. You selected a card and your friend selected one from his pack. Now one or the other of you might reject an offering because they already had it or didn’t think the player was equal to their own. This didn’t happen very often. We usually just flipped. We didn’t flip a coin; we flipped the cards. We kind of wrist-snapped them against a wall or hard surface. If one card fell face up and the other didn’t, the owner of the face up card got both. If both cards fell face up or face down, you went again.
To tell the truth, I didn’t like to gamble very much. I am a born hoarder remember. I would
trade duplicates though.
I invented a lot of games with bubblegum cards. Some actually had to do with baseball. For instance, I would take a team of players and spread them out on the floor where their positions would be, First base, second Base, etc. My other team would bat. I would throw a little wad of paper with one hand and swing the batter card at it with the other.  Where it landed, if I hit it, determined how many bases the hitter took. If I missed it was a strike. If it landed on a fielder card the batter was out. I would play an entire nine-inning game doing that.
Or I would take a team, Phillies cards versus Cubs cards for instance and do a player match. In this I made two piles, one team in each or sometimes just various players. (I always separated pitchers out.) I would turn over a card from each pile and compare batting averages. Highest average won and that side took the player. The object was to capture one of the piles in total. It could take hours.
Another game I played was League Standings. I would mix up all the cards in my shoebox
and then put them back in order by team. I would lay a card face up on the floor; lets say it was of a Cardinal. I would then take the next card and lay it down. If it were a different team, say the Cubs, it would go to the right of the first card. If the next card were another Cub, then the Cub pile would leap over the Cardinal pile into first place. Eventually all teams would be in this game. (We only had eight teams in each league at that time.) If a team was in first and the next card was that team, I would set it next to the pile on the left. If the team in second was then drawn, the spare card for the first place team kept them in first, but it then went on top of their main pile.

Finally, I might just play a war game with my cards. This had nothing to do with baseball. I would pick certain face cards as the good guys, a little team of warriors to battle a hoard of cards with action poses. I would have battles, somewhat like the gambling. I would take a “Good Guy” and a “Bad Guy” and fling the two cards together. Whichever landed face down was dead. Being right-handed I always threw the Bad Guy with my left. That way the Good Guy usually won. Yeah, I cheated a little in my games.